OBITUARY: TOM YATES, 1958-2022
Lexington chef and longtime Ace food writer Chef Tom Yates died Wednesday, February 9, 2022, at the age of 63 after a brief illness. Initially admitted to the emergency room for suspected pneumonia and sepsis, the ICU team discovered that he was also suffering from previously undiagnosed, but advanced metastatic cancer. His condition deteriorated rapidly; all medical interventions were exhausted and he died the next day.
“Food is my memory trigger. I might not remember the small details of my childhood, but I can taste them.”
His first foray into cooking for large off-site events began with the tango. “Taylor Made Horse Farm hosted a benefit production of Luis Bravo’s Tony-nominated ‘Forever Tango’ that featured the iconic partner dance. With proceeds benefiting the Race for Education and Operation Read, the evening featured a two-hour production at The Lexington Opera House that showcased the sexy Argentine dance.” During the planning and prepping for 300-plus tango revelers, he immersed himself in Argentine cuisine, and prepared an “authentic array of exotic fruits, bowls of lime-spiked ceviche, fried plantains, salsas, and stacks of beef empanadas overflowing from large wooden street carts,” but remembered that the crowd “seemed to be most smitten with a small bowl of chimichurri sauce nestled next to a huge slab of beef on a carving station. It must have stirred emotions.”
He retired from the food industry in 2020, at the beginning of the COVID pandemic, but continued his extraordinary work as a food writer and photographer. He had recently begun sharing his passion for culinary photography via his Instagram profile at @canonchef.
In the early days of the pandemic, he wrote, “As a kid, I believed that if I could swing high enough to fly over the swingset my world would turn upside down and inside out. My private little Wonderland. Now, as an adult, the world is upside down and inside out. No swings attached.”
He is preceded in death by his mother, Miriam T. Yates, and his father, Major Owen T. Yates Jr. who was awarded the Legion of Merit. Both parents are buried together just below the Amphitheatre and the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier at Arlington National Cemetery. He was also cared for in childhood by nannies Frau Olga and Ababa, and his stepmother Marge Yates, who married Major Yates when Tom was 14.
Tom is survived by his husband and partner of 36 years, Michael Jansen Miller of Lexington; brother in law Jon Miller (Jennifer) of Brandenburg; and sister-in-law Vicki Miller Singleton (Bill) of Irvine; along with half brother Mickey Yates.
A Celebration of Life and interment of ashes is planned for later this Spring at Christ Church Cathedral.
Memorial donations may be made to:
the fund for the London Ferrill Community Garden
at the Old Episcopal Burial Ground
℅ Christ Church Cathedral
and
The Lee Initiative, co-founded by Kentucky chef Edward Lee.
Include “In Memory of Chef Tom Yates” in the notes of your contribution.
Updated information about the Memorial will be posted at the facebook group, “I Knew Tom Yates: 1958-2022,” an online community celebrating the life and legacy of Chef Tom. Flowers may be delivered to the reception hall for the Memorial, once scheduled. A tree will be planted in Tom’s honor at the Old Episcopal Burial Ground when weather permits.